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Watch Out World, Here Comes the Achievement Junkie!

Dr. Ronda Beaman wants to inspire you to live your best life through empowerment.

It’s time to come clean about something that I’ve known for a long time. My name is Ronda Beaman, and I am a junkie. Yes, you read that right. I have an addiction … an addiction to achievement.

To most of us, the word “addiction” has negative connotations. It conjures up visions of people with lives spinning out of control, spiraling toward some terrible end. But my addiction has driven me to accomplish many things that I never would have dreamed possible.

My secret? I never give up.

Achieving the impossible – or the near impossible – gives me a high that is greater than any drug I could take. It’s the feeling that I can do anything if I just set my mind to it.

It all started when I was a young girl, racking up Girl Scout merit badges the way some kids might hoard Halloween candy. It was such an emotional rush to add badge after badge to my Girl Scout sash, each badge earned yet another physical reminder that I had made an accomplishment.

As I grew, my vast collection of  badges became a symbol for how I wanted to live my life, a stepping stone on the pathway to lifelong achievement. I sailed on into adulthood, receiving my Ph.D. and working as a professor; becoming a fitness instructor, executive coach, and motivational speaker; writing my memoir, Little Miss Merit Badge; and perhaps most importantly, refusing to bend to the diagnosis of multiple sclerosis that I received more than 20 years ago.

I may not wear that Girl Scout sash anymore, but I still thrive on earning “badges” for every new undertaking I pursue.

Perhaps most importantly, I want to be able to share my attitude and my zest for achievement with the whole world. In addition to booking speaking engagements all over the globe, I am proud to serve on the board of directors for the National Pay It Forward Foundation. My family has been named Most Creative Family by USA Today. I continue to write, speak, teach, and live life to its fullest potential. And I want to share my recipe for enduring success and contentment with anyone who wants to listen.

After all, what good are my achievements if I can’t inspire others to achieve as well?

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nick mastick April 28, 2013 at 09:34 pm
Of all the concerns in our society, I put this just about dead last.
Steven Murphy April 17, 2013 at 02:25 am
Hmm. So I think you're telling me I need to add the countdown timers to the long list of BerkeleyRead More idiosyncrasies I need to ignore? I guess can do that. Thanks. --Murph
Alexander Sinclair Merenkov April 15, 2013 at 04:34 pm
This is very interesting. I bicycle and walk a lot around Berkeley. I think i know exactly whatRead More signal is being referred to the walk sign across Bancroft at MLK specifically will reset itself. many of the walk signals rely on induction loops which are loops placed in the ground that can detect Bicycles and Cars when the Bicycles or cars pass over them disrupting the current. You can often see these loops as they look like hexagonal saw cuts in the ground. Anyways the intersection detects traffic with these devices & if it doesn't detect anything then it assumes nothing is there and gives right of way to the major throughway in this case being MLK. So the reason the counter to cross Bancroft resets itself is totally logical because the intersection suspects no one is there and since that side of Bancroft is more or less residential there would be no point in setting that intersection to a timer where it gives priority to one light then the other & switches based on that & not on wether it detects any bicycles or cars passing over the induction loops. Also this is Berkeley and we are rather quirky and always have been so nobody exactly fallows the rules or knows about them its funny how simple crossing the street really is but its anything but simple in reality. Many people choose to jay walk if its safe to do so, this is typical on Shattuck at alston especially and makes sense for efficiency but isn't very safe or lawful. If the hand is flashing/Counting down dont cross!
Janet Scrivener April 6, 2013 at 11:15 pm
Actually, I just saw and spoke to him about an hour ago - the wire sculpture man. He'd moved downRead More Solano a few blocks, opposite Safeway. I asked him if the police had moved him off Colusa. He said he didn't want to talk about it. He wasn't in a very good mood. I told him that people had asked about him on a web local news site. He said, "People want to know how I'm doing? I need a car. I need somewhere to put my stuff in. To get off the streets. I don't want to sit around starving in public." I thought to myself, "Who do I think I am? A Girl Scout leader? Pollyana?" I realized my upbeat, cheery tone was really not what was needed just then. I said I couldn't help him with a car. "People want to know how I'm doing?" he said again. "Tell them that." I said, "I will." I turned to walk away, knowing only too well that the real needs that exist, yes, right here in our lovely, excellent neighborhood, are great and once you start giving you'll find it's difficult to get out of. He did say, "Thank you," as I left. He doesn't look like he's starving. But he's right about being out in public more than he would like to be. As a reasonable human being, I have to ask myself, what sort of person finds himself in that position? Ex con? Mental illness? Mind-blown Vet? Drugs? Alcohol? Incapacitated by an accident? An unforgivable act? Some combination of the above? Jesus did say, "The poor you shall have always with you." What would you do?
P. Park April 4, 2013 at 03:29 am
I agree Shattuck, especially right in front of the fire station is the scariest street around.
Mary April 3, 2013 at 06:45 pm
I am not disabled, but I am terrified of crossing streets nowadays because there are too manyRead More careless and aggressive drivers who act is if red lights, speed limits, and crosswalks either don't exist or don't apply to them. Shattuck in particular has become a nightmare to cross. Sometimes I have counted over 30 cars going by before one stops for the crosswalk. What we need is far more law enforcement - the tickets written would more than pay for the cost of hiring extra officers.